Three Years Later
The date was Thursday, July 9, 2009. I packed my bags and headed for the big city. All this just two weeks after returning from six weeks in Europe to complete my Master of Architecture (okay, that was just a small portion of the six weeks, the rest was spent vacationing). In March 2009 I received an offer from the company I wanted to work for in the city I wanted to work in - it didnít take me long to make up my mind.So after twenty-four years in Kentucky (minus the time spent in Champaign, IL; Muncie, IN; and brief summer stops in Washington D.C. and Chicago) I was ready to begin the rest of my life. The job was preservation architect at a leading firm and the city was Chicago. Just like previous life affecting decisions (mainly choosing to attend UIUC and Ball State) I knew this was exactly what I wanted.That was three years ago. And Iím glad Iím never wrong.Live couldnít be better.(Well thatís not entirely true, itíd be better with working electricity at my new house - but thatís for another blog post of which there will be plenty as I renovate my new house and make it a home.)Moving to Chicago brought me within a short ĎLí ride to most of my good friends from UIUC (and even a few BSUers). Itís allowed me to reconnect with friends I hadnít seen in years (both high school and undergrad) but thanks to Facebook still considered friends. This once shy guy (thatís something you overcome when you find yourself at college knowing absolutely nobody - twice), even has a new group of friends thanks to the intramural soccer league.(True to form, I still try to avoid co-mingling of disparate groups because its better if all the dirt is spread amongst the groups.)Everyday at work Iím evolving my dream job into my dream career. I never imagined Iíd be rappelling off some of Chicagoís most recognized buildings or traveling to Haiti to document historic houses in disrepair from the historic earthquake. But I am, and itís fucking awesome. When you love what you do and work with people you like (for the most part) itís really not a job. Hell I even like some people at work enough to consider them good friends.You may be asking, ďWhy this now at three years? What about after a year? Or twoĒ?Well it started about this time last year, but it finally came full circle within the last few months, as I let my mind wander. (Which, generally, I hate because if I have too much time to think my brain goes into hyper activity and I over think every stupid fucking aspect of everything - which has happened recently as Iíve tried to kill time without electricity. Seriously, itís no way to live unless youíre fucking Amish.)This is my life. These are my friends. This is my career. Chicago is my home. And itís fucking awesome. This is who I am. Iíve made no compromises. And Iím pretty sure thatís why Iím at this point in my life - three years after starting the rest of my life.Sometimes I wonder what if I hadnít gone to UIUC (to this day I still cannot remember what drew me to UIUC in the first place - had to be the Morrow Plots)? It was 1A with NC State, but quickly ascended to 1 after I had a horrible experience with all the brick on the NC State campus. Though not going to UIUC wasnít really an option, since I never officially completed fully the applications for any other college (though Kansas State accepted me pretty much no questions asked, as long as I eventually sent a transcript).Or what about Ball State? I guess I could technically do this with every decision Iíve ever made in my life. And that would take forever and bore you. But the wondering is usually interrupted by a wry smile and brief chuckle as I remind myself that I did go to UIUC and Ball State.And those decisions are most likely the reason Iím where Iím at today and loving it.Because Iím never wrong.(Thanks to all my family, friends, and everybody else who played a role, no matter how small, during any part of the last 27+ years. As you know Iím not an overly sentimental guy and itís only three years but everything seems so right. The next step is making my newly purchased house, into a home so you all can visit and enjoy my Chicago life with me.)
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